爱的含义

I LOVE YOU的真正含义

Ｉ－Ｉｎｊｅｃｔ———投入

投入，这个投入有很多概念，有对自己所爱的人，投入自己所有的感情，让你所爱的人感受到你真实的爱的存在，也有对自己的投入，投入自己对爱的理念的深入，对爱的真谛的理解，对双方未来的理性思考。还有在经济方面的投入也是不可缺少的，没有面包的爱情，真的很难在现实中存在的。总之要获得爱情就要投入的很多?

Ｌ－Ｌｏｙａｌ———忠诚

忠诚，对自己所爱的人的一种必备的东西，没有了忠诚也就不会再在爱情的存在，双方都要将自己的爱全身心的投入到对方中，对自己爱情观的一种见证，对自己爱情的负责。总之忠诚是真正爱情的必备之物?

Ｏ－Ｏｂｓｅｒｖａｎｔ———用心

用心，自然很容易就会想到，对自己所爱的人用心，当然同样也不要忘记对自己用心，如果一个人都不能对自己用心，那还能对谁用心呢？所以对自己用心，善待自己，也是不可缺少的，用心是双向的，用心去理解爱情，才会让双方的爱情更加的牢固。总之用心就是爱情的桥梁通往彼此的心灵深处?

Ｖ－Ｖａｌｉａｎｔ———勇敢

勇敢，也许是要获得爱情的必备武器。这个武器很容易得到，因为就在各自的身上，可是也是些人所苦苦追寻的，爱情就是需要勇敢，勇敢的面对自己的爱情，让自己的爱情不要留下任何遗憾，勇敢的去为自己的爱情而打拼，勇敢的为自己所爱的人而努力奋斗。总之勇敢就是爱情的武器为爱情保驾护航。

Ｅ－Ｅｎｊｏｙｍｅｎｔ———喜悦

喜悦，就是在得到或是经历过上面的一切后所获得的果实，虽然这还是一颗未能成熟的果实，不过当看到果实的形成，你就会知道自己以前的付出是有回报的，因此你们都沉浸在欢乐的喜悦当中。这时爱情的果实已经形成，以后还需要你和对方共同去呵护这个来之不易的果实。总之此时的喜悦是对爱情的肯定，它为爱情而存在。

Ｙ－Ｙｅｓ———愿意

愿意，当看到这个词时，想到的多半是电视剧中的情节。牧师在新人的双方中间，问女方，你愿意嫁给他吗？男方也一样的。这样的情节，已经见多不怪了，但这两个词所得到的就是一个成熟的果实，愿意，愿意将自己的一半托付给自己所爱的人，这应该是一种幸福。总之说出愿意是得到爱情前的最后美妙的时候。

Ｏ－Ｏｂｌｉｇａｔｉｏｎ责任

责任，不要以为自己获得了爱情就没有什么责任了，相反你所面临的重担将会加剧，对爱情的责任，要对自己努力得到的爱情有一种延续，是对自己所爱的人的一种负责，也是对自己的负责；对家庭的责任，爱自己的亲人，不要辜负了你所爱的人对你的爱，这种爱已经将转换到对家庭中，所以要你们都去为之努力。总之爱情的责任将会一直都存在你的周围，为之努力奋斗将是我们所必备的?

Ｕ－Ｕｎｉｓｏｎ和谐

和谐，这个词向来都是对家庭而言的，一个和谐的家庭是每个人的向往，也是我们所应追求的，并为之努力创造的。和谐总能给人以安静详和的一种感觉，给人以白头携老的一种意境?选总之和谐是爱情的美好境界?






~我还没放弃你~
！因为我做不到！
#可是我不会烦你#
*只想说一句：我爱你*

HMMMM....

today at skul quite happy de le, haha!!! a whole morning i just laughing at 2004 student of chung hwa la. she is involve oso le. cute dao~ haha.. thn the whole morning i oso saw her laughing lor! so im happy too^^ hehe..than after recess i keep on singing in class lor. like a sor poh onli. thn 5 of us change place to behind and sit, cz gt fans mah. haha^^ thn o.kee was doin her math exercise, but i keep on singing untill she cant concentrate on it. sorry lor^^ wakakakaka. than change to english period le, PN.CHIN time o^^ but act her period very funny de la, some time will very boring only. thn duno wheather fern & rooba say de is truth or not la, PN.CHIN de face look so worry about amanda o^^ hope is false de la. cz nt good oso. hope amanda & marilyn will come to skul tomorow la. today de period quite enjoy it de!

Pop icon Michael Jackson dead at 50

Michael Jackson is dead after suffering a cardiac arrest, sending shockwaves sweeping across the world and tributes pouring in Friday for the tortured music icon revered as the "King of Pop."

Jackson, 50, collapsed at his rented mansion in the exclusive Los Angeles neighborhood of Holmby Hills and was rushed to hospital by paramedics before being pronounced dead at 2:26 pm (2126 GMT) on Thursday.

One of the most influential figures in pop history whose career included the highest-selling album of all-time, "Thriller," Jackson had been preparing for a concert comeback in London next month he had dubbed "the final curtain."

News of his death triggered an outpouring of grief as shocked celebrities, foreign governments and devoted fans from Beijing to Beverly Hills paid tribute to the troubled star.

Lieutenant Fred Corral, a spokesman for the Los Angeles County Coroner's office, said an autopsy would likely be carried out on Friday and would not speculate on the exact cause of death.

Jackson's brother Jermaine, the family's official spokesman, later revealed physicians had battled for more than an hour to revive the star after his arrival at the UCLA Medical Center before he was pronounced dead.

"Our family requests that the media please respect our privacy during this tough time," Jermaine Jackson said. "May Allah be with you, Michael, always."

As the sun began to sink over Los Angeles, a coroner's office helicopter bearing Jackson's body took off from the UCLA Medical Center, where hundreds of media and fans had gathered throughout the day.

Meanwhile police motorcycle riders surrounded Jackson's gated mansion as crowds of tourists and fans congregated.

Pop diva Madonna was among dozens of celebrities who struggled to cope. "I can't stop crying over the sad news," the singer said in a statement. "The world has lost one of the greats, but his music will live on forever!"

The star's first wife Lisa Marie Presley, the daughter of Elvis Presley, said his death had left her speechless.

"I am so very sad and confused with every emotion possible. I am heartbroken for his children, who I know were everything to him, and for his family," Presley told MTV News in a statement.

Political figures also paid their tributes.

California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger lamented the loss of "one of the most influential and iconic figures in the music industry."

But the most visible emotion came in spontaneous gatherings of fans here and across the world.

In Los Angeles Lana Brown, a 49-year-old tourist from Dallas, broke down in tears as she digested the news. "I can't believe we might have lost the best entertainer this world has ever seen," she told AFP.

In New York's Times Square, Chantal de Roy van Zuydewijn watched a giant screen broadcasting the news of Jackson's death with tears running down her cheeks.

"He is a legend. He is a genius," said the 28-year-old Dutch tourist, who had a ticket to the pop legend's scheduled comeback tour in July.

Jackson's death came as the singer prepared to make a keenly anticipated concert comeback in London, his first series of shows in more than a decade.

Jackson family attorney Brian Oxman said he had harbored concerns over the singer's condition, revealing that he had been taking prescription medication as he prepared for his comeback.

Oxman compared Jackson's fate to the overdose death of Playboy centerfold Anna-Nicole Smith, voicing concern over "enablers" in his entourage.

"The people who have surrounded him have been enabling him... if you think that the case of Anna-Nicole Smith was an abuse, it was nothing to what we have seen in Michael Jackson's life," Oxman told CNN.

While Jackson ruled the charts and dazzled audiences with electric dance moves like the backwards "moonwalk" in the 1980s, his once-stellar career was overshadowed by his colorful public behavior, his startling physical transformation and multiple allegations of child abuse.

He lived as a virtual recluse following his 2005 acquittal on charges including child molestation and plotting to kidnap his young accuser.

Despite his acquittal, the trial was a body blow from which the pop music superstar, who named his ranch after Peter Pan's "Neverland" of perpetual childhood and furnished it with Disney-inspired rides, struggled to recover.

Born on August 29, 1958, Jackson made his show business debut with four of his elder brothers in the Jackson Five pop group, and went on to lead the stage clan with a piping soprano and dazzling dance moves.

In 1979, Quincy Jones produced Jackson's first solo album for Epic, "Off the Wall," a huge disco-oriented success that sold 10 million copies.

They teamed up again in 1982 for what would be Jackson's breakthrough album as a composer and co-producer, "Thriller," which became the top-selling album of all time, with sales exceeding 41 million.

Jones reacted with shock after being informed of Jackson's death Thursday.

"I'm absolutely devastated at this news," he said. "I just don't have the words. Divinity brought our souls together and allowed us to do what we could do through the '80s," Jones said.

Tommy Mottola, the former head of Sony Music who released Jackson's records for 16 years, said the singer had a place in the pantheon of American music icons, alongside Elvis and Frank Sinatra.

"It's one of the greatest losses," Mottola told the Los Angeles Times.

Crowds continued to throng near the UCLA Medical Center and Jackson's home late Thursday, while street vendors selling hastily designed commemorative T-shirts for 25 dollars sought to cash in.

missing AH B alots er~

loooooooooooooooooooooooooooong time dint see AH B le... mayb u all was thinking hu is ta, it just a hamster onli~ hehe^^ very cute de le AH B, haha^^ it brought from shi qin, thn pass to audrey le, cz shi qin cannt take alook for AH B.. so on tat day audrey take bec home le, we suggest to give it a name, "AH B".. cute ma this name?? hehe^^ duno when can see AH B again le... haiz haiz... AH B mayb will have a friend play with u today, cz AH ZAI had follow audrey bec home le... hope AH B will happy le~ miss u alots alots!!!






~dun just
take care
of _ _ _,
AH B oso,
cham cham
T_T T_T~

emo emo de me~

early morning need to gotong-royong and ceriakan class masing-masing o^^ coz 2morow we need to take result le~ so sad, i fail my GEO le... huhuhuhuT_T y? y? y? the subject i can get better result but i fail it le.. wat happen to me a??? staarting no mood to study le lor act!!!! everything happen to me now, just i cant really accept it, but i HAVE TOO!!!! y???? haiz... some more i need act infront of them.. haiz.. haiz.. act them dint force me do it, just i did it by my self only... talk bec today de, after the BOD of PBC meeting, thn went bec home.. while waiting bus, xiao hui & onn kee ajak me go yam cha le... sorry er chang cheng, dam dei u alone! hope u wont angry le... thn we went up bus go ampang point, then we go MCD there.. but it was full of ppl, so we just go off lor... thn went up stay to look aroud... but the end we still havin in MCD.. haha!!! swt swt~ thn saw boyi, audrey & ally-my fat piggie... thn around 3:50 sumthing onn kee went bec le, just left me & xiao hui... so we just havin our chit-chat untill 4:30 like tat jiu go bec le... just like for today~

to u~!

hmm... sorry, i duno wat happen to u and made u & them dint talk for 2 day... mayb i really dint sumthing very wrong on it ba~ but what i can say just a word of "sorry"... recently happen de thing i oso duno, but evrything just i was involved in...no mood to settle & no mood to think about it oso... so, sorry to u all.... especially u... hope u will forgive me... if u r nt oso nvm, cz tat ur choice.. u can even dun bother me for this few month u had left in SMKPA!!! is up to u!!!

*HARI KOPERASI DAY*

koperasi day finish le luu~ huhuhu T_T cant play water house er this year! so cham~ the whole koperasi day almost with zhu tou-yin ning together! feeling abit boring o this year! mayb is i cant go play water house ba~ just can watch them play happily onli o T_T wah~ my class around 12 ady close le, fast ba?? haha.. we cant play water house but we play ghost house le, wakakaka! duno how to say lor, wheather is scary or funny lor! haha! me & yin & sing & yuan & jenny & sabrina one group go in! when starting tat time, we need to go in le, but yin they all very scare on it. they dun wan me walk in, just hugging me dun let me in.. funny dao~ haha!! kesian jenny lor, she is the last one, stop at half way, her leg let the ghost touch!! haha~ yin & sing cried le! really a twins lor! hehe^^ zhu tou cute dao~ funny dao~ haha!!! lol lol lol.. haha!!! today whole day they are together whenever they go lor, just got the feeling feel sad & i was abit happy on it de! cz see her smile and play happily with her!! thn me slowly oso will feeli abit happy lor~ haha!! cz last few day see her like very tired onli!!! hmm... no pict o, with sammi & klcc & yen yee them! upload next time gua~



~wish her
always
be happy
as today
de mood~

iNjEcTiOn DaY!!!!!

Haiz.. today our skul form 3 students gt injection le. scary dao! Haha^^ but then I dint cry out.. hehe^^ zhu tou -yin ning did le, she so brave le, she is the 1st in our class to inject de le, *yeng* dao! Haha.. but after that zhu tou cried out le o^^ then the most scared in my class is our penolong tingkatan, anis.. haha.. she keep on crying & screaming!!! But she hvnt injection yet de, funny dao! Haha… when finish injection le, she cry a while then jiu play happily bec le.. so jia lor her!! Kakakakaka... hmmm, ntg special lor today, normal normal jiek.. quite a boring day in skull lor.. after skul jiu go A.P but present with my lui lui& boyi le.. hey, 2morow our skul HARI KOPERASI LE WOR!!! But dint have the mood to play lor 2morow!! But gt activities to do o^^ haha!! Will she feel surprise?? Hope so le.. k le, leave here.. bye bye lor~ take care!!

to my besties, CHANG CHENG

happy birthday to u o^^
wish u many times le. haha
happy ba today?? hehe^^
wish u all the best yea~
love u always~
miss u always~
muackssssssss~
do take care~

todayyyyy~~~~

All over right now.. mayb still have a lot thing I duno the ans on it.. but I dun wan knw about it anymore le!!! just let it be like this lar.. I dun wan have too much of pressure from them anymore!! Make me think a lot & a lot!!! So stress on it!!! Seriously wanna crazy le becz of this problem!!! Whatever lar.. just take it as ady settle on it lar.. thn I will just feel more happy gua!!!! K le, cry cry cry oways!!! Waste my tears only lo.. haiz.. GAMBATEH le me!!! Hehe… thx for u all de adviced and support yea, my fren!!!! Take care guys!!!!

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haiz..... duno y??? everything happen without reason de lor... wat she want oh?? isit she dun wan me in this world??? today really very tired le.. no energy to reply urs post!!! but i wont let go as like this.. if i have time i will reply!!!! cz u like saying me everytjing is wrong!!!! hmmm.... k le, stope here... bye, take care all my fren~ thx for caring me yea~

reply to *U*

now wat u want??? tell me directly lar??? wat wrong right now??? act ntg happen de, but u want add up the trouble 4 wat??? wat i did to u???y u want find problem argue with me??? izit u will feel very happy when after u argue with me??? can u think it proper le onli type out?? u r finding the pass pass away de thing to fight with me!!!! do u need it??? iz it u want me same as u last time with audrey??? i wont fight with her becz of u!!!!! wont!!!! i dun wan oso!!!! think ur self!!!!

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我不想和你吵！！！请你不要制造问题可以吗？？？没人要你那样！！！你会让别人对你更失望！！！！我不想和她吵因为你！！！没这个必要！！！你对我已不再重要了！！！我不应该酱傻相信你！！！我错了！！！我只想要他开开心心就好！！！不要给他带来不必要的麻烦可以吗？？！！！？？！！

~To boyi~

boyi, im verry sorry tat just now do tat to u!!!! hope u will forgive about me!!! i dint mean anything de!!! very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very sorry to u!!!!!

想清楚才写

是我想问你要怎样？？又关到我的事？？！！我都没有怪AUDREY!!!!!我也没说她错！！！你了解了才乱骂可以吗？？我也没说我是受害者！！！你觉得他们过分，难道你们就不觉得你们两个很过分吗？？？他有选择权去谈恋爱，我没阻止啊！！！你不觉得是有意的吗？？？为什么偏偏你就是在我和她分时和好？？？你们要在一起就一起啦！！！没人阻止你们俩！！！ 没有人说别人是废的！！！这有眼的人都看得出来！！难道你们就不觉得你们很过分吗？？开口就说姓叶的！！！我没有名字啊？？要就写我的名字出来啊啊！！！这件事上根本都没有人怪你，你为什么要自找苦吃？？有必要吗？？？ 是不是关于到AUDREY 你就要管？？？？ 我和她的事要你管吗？？？我都没对他做任何事？？？你忍什么？？难道你觉得你要忍的事比我还要多吗？？？难道这全都是我的错吗？？？我没有要他们帮着我，挺我！！！他们要做什么我也管不着！！！！你想要得都已经实现了！！！不是说你要和他一起的！！！是你已得到了他的关心！！！就只有他懂不就好了啦！！！！

break with her de 3rd day~

today at skul so *xing ku*...duno y,early in the morning saw her reach le feel so *xing ku* le...mayb is i scare with her le..reason i cant explain.. cz my self oso duno about it... after awhile, she come over find her le...(if u knw wat happen to me thn u will knw wat i mean) saw they two playing together jiu have one cant speak out de feeling.. my heart slowly feeling pain start from the moment... but almost make me wanna cry out is she scoled at me wif those *bad words*... i duno tat u r talking to me, cz start from the day u had break with u, u just talk with she onli!!!! is just a small thing... why u want so mad on it???!!!! but i have to say sory to u, cz dint gave u any respond!!!! it just becz i still cant face with u two when together tat time!!!! mayb is me run off in this problem... but i can face u two when u two are nt together... tell u the truth, im happy & feel good when u r caring of me... but **U** dun worry, i wont GRAB her from u!!!!!! anyways thx much to u!!!! and one verry sory cz i dint obey wat i had promisse u... is nt i dun wan is i cant!!!! when i eat & drink it will make me feel so vomint & nt feeling well!!! slowly i hungry le, i will eat de!!!!! okay!!!!! u all say u two are nt together, thn i except it la!!!! but wat u two had done out, everyone oso will think u two are couple!!!! dont trust, ask some one else!!!! u two had make me feel dissapointed!!!! mayb i need time to forget all of it!!!! everytime i dun wan face to u all, but surely u all will appear infront of me!!!! y? y? y? but i choose to face u all, i will do my best of it!!!in the case of i wheather still love u or nt, i cant sure on it!!!! no matter how, i will make u feel suffer on it!!!! ady break with u feel day le, mayb really much thing had change in my life, but i will try my best to nt think much on it!!! long time le, i will except it de!!!! when writting this post, u was infront of me. feeling **guai guai** & **bu guan** on it le... fine le, slowly will forget it de~

歌词：歌曲:眼泪笑了
歌手:刘力扬

比想象中更痛 你真的没回头
我命令眼泪不许失控
回忆不跟你走 都挤在我心中
我就有责任让它值得被珍重

谢谢你曾让我难过
谢谢我没有想太多
当爱情左盼右顾的时候

我眼泪都笑了 谁还想哭呢
再勇敢的站着 找回光和热
面对你的时候 我不会舍不得
因为你已是过客 因为路有些曲折
是美的

心碎成了沙漠 就快开凿绿洲
我没有时间不知所措
你温柔的双手 本就不属于我
又何必在乎它以后属于谁呢

谢谢你曾让我难过
谢谢我没有想太多
当爱情左盼右顾的时候

我眼泪都笑了 谁还想哭呢
再勇敢的站着 找回光和热
面对你的时候 我不会舍不得
因为你已是过客 因为路有些曲折

你眼泪都笑了 谁还会哭呢
来不及完美的 就唱首骊歌
想起你的时候 我不是卑微的
反而我没有遗憾 因为我已爱过你
深深的

这首歌真得让我振作起来了！！我的眼泪都笑了，不会想哭了！！面对你的时候，我不会舍不得了！！我相信我一定能做到！！反正你也在不属于我了，因为你心里有了她！！在挽留你在我身旁也没用，你心怎样都是向她的！！我对你也没有遗憾了，因为我时真的又深深的爱过你。你不珍惜，我也不需要缠着你！**你是好人也是个坏人，对我坦诚只为了朝她狂奔！！！还记得哦对你说过吗？？你对我好时，我觉得你是好人。你对我坏时，我觉得你是坏人！！现在觉得这首歌很适合你对我的感觉，是否是真假我不懂！！可是也不重要了！！给你们玩过，利用过，伤害过，我再也没感觉了！！！怎样都好，谢谢你，我深深爱过的人！！！~Audrey Yan~

给你们的劝告

嗯。。。你和她是否真的开始了我不想知也不在意了。我和你们的一切已过了！只留下我们三人的回忆！！劝你们在学校不要太宣扬。我只劝你们，你们可以不听的！
up to u all want how to think me, i dun care about it anymore le. duno y, i feel tat both of u two are playng my feeling & trying to hurting me again & again!!! maby im really a stupid gurl to let u two hurt me!! is ok, nvm. but i want tell u, dun ever try to hurt her*the person i love* anymore!! duno y, i started nt to trust u two le, i had lost the cinfidence to u two le! im sorry!!! but i really hope u will nt to hurt her, cz she really love at u much thn ever! appreciate her when u have her by ur side!!! mayb she is nt perfect in this world, but the way she treating her gf is really better thn who ever!!!!! hope u wont hurt her agains!!!

our relationship end le~

hmmm... seriously can tell u all de is me & her is all over start from this moment! could nt be together anymore! bcz i wont be a stupid gurl again & again! they dun trust the reason u tell me is real de, but i trust wat u say! maby me really is like tat de la. sorry for everything tat i did to u. i will stay strong of this! wont be weak! cz everyone is supporting me & be by my side! thx for u all!! now eveything is just left down a good & sweet memory to me! mayb u all will suggest me nt to rmber it, but i wont! cz i still will treat her as my fren! but nt tat close cz u ady have her by ur side supporting u, loving u, caring u and so on. duno y i will think u two r playing my feeling & hurting me again & again! mayb u two will feel more better after do tat to me! is just my thinking anyways! this relationship really make me awake le!!!! thx for everything u had gave to me!!! and ur love, care, support and so on. wont forget it! thank you!!!!!

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